Is he playing the dating game
This time he doesn’t call reminds you of all the guys, and all the times they didn’t call.This non-call reminds you that you’re invested in someone who isn’t as invested in you. What really matters is how you feel when you’re with him.
Once, I dated a guy who would text me, or call me every day. I wasn’t freaked initially, but I noticed there was something essentially missing in my day. While we hadn’t been dating very long, just one day without contact I began to be alarmed. The next day came and went without a text and again I reached out to him. It was true ghosting because back then social media didn’t allow me to keep tabs on him. The fear you get when a guy you like isn’t reaching out to you.I had to remind myself of one important truth: When a man isn’t calling you, instead of worrying about what that means put the situation into perspective.The objective is to maintain your sanity, and your emotional state.At the end of the day, you have to decide for yourself what you want, and why you want it. When waiting for a man to call you if he said he would, if he usually does, or if you think it’s common courtesy, always remember that the world will not end. If he isn’t calling you, or you feel uncomfortable calling him, then reevaluate the relationship. If it doesn’t feel good then lose the guy before you lose your positive attitude. Trying play detective and use a man’s contact frequency as a sign of interest never works.